INTRODUCTION
OUR thoughts are
our Mental Children; they come from our minds like little infants, very
small,
very tender, very frail, but they grow and grow, day by day, year by
year, till
they become a strong family around us, filling our hearts and peopling
our
homes, and thronging the world in which we live.
What a big
family it is, and how each child differs from another!
Let us
consider some of them.
There is
Kind Thought. She was born many years ago. We did not think much of her
when
she came from our hearts, she seemed so frail, so inadequate, so
helpless in compare-son
to the great need; but we nursed her, and tended her, and we dressed
her in the
pure robes of unselfishness, and she grew, did our little Kind
Thought, she
grew in strength and beauty day by day, till she stood before us a
lovely
maiden, so fair to look upon; filling our eyes with
beauty, and our hearts with joy. And oh, but
we were glad that our little Kind Thought was ever born!
Time
passed on, and to Kind Thought was added Purity.
Oh, but it
was a fair day when she was born! Our hearts were filled with a deep
abiding
peace, and our souls seemed scarce large enough to contain our
satisfaction.
She filled our days with calmness and restfulness, and as she grew
in
strength, so we grew strong, for her strength entered into the very
core of our
being.
Blessed,
thrice blessed was that day when Purity was born to us.
And then
came another.
How fast
they come to us, those Mind Children!
And this
next one we called Mercy She was gentle and meek-eyed, but strong and
vigorous
withal. She took our hands in hers, and drew us after the suffering and
sorrowful,
that we might help and succors them. She pointed to the world of
anguish in the
animal creation, calling us to hearken to the sob of slaughtered beasts
and
birds, to the cry of the tortured and hunted, till the tears of pity
fell from
our eyes. And sometimes when we were prone to forget, and were wont to
"mingle our pleasure or our pride with sorrow of the meanest thing that
lives," she sighed so near to us, we drew back and blushed for
shame. We crown the day that Mercy came to us, for she has
grown so
strong and beautiful, extending her grace and benevolence on all
hands—on birds, and beast, and man, till her sweet influence has filled
our
lives with tenderness, and in every sorrow of our own hearts we too
have found
coming: from others to us that "quality of Mercy" that is not
strained, but that "droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven" upon us.
But one
day, alas! alas! we travailed in pain, weariness and anguish of spirit,
and so
brought forth a dark sad-eyed child, and we called it Hatred. Its swarthy face
was ill-favoured,
and its touch was like fire, and its eyes burned with consuming heat.
We wished
that it might die—this child of our brain—but we were not willing to
let it
die, and so it grew and grew in strength and power till it stood
between us and
the sunshine, and when we tried to call Mercy and Purity and Kind
Thought to
our aid, it pushed in between, and they shrank from its touch, so that
we could
not see them nor feel their sweet presence. And it came not alone to us
either,
for Hate has many of its own kind, so it gathered around us Envy with
the dark
brow, and Malice with the hard face, and Deceit—that terrible child,
author of
anguish untold—and in their train came Sorrow the sad-eyed, and Pain
and Woe,
twin children, to mock us. When we tried to drive them from us they
clung to us
crying, "We are thine, thou thyself hast given birth to us, we are the
children of thy own mind and heart"—and we knew it was true, and,
knowing
it, we wept sore in our sorrow and darkness.
But one
day a wondrous thing happened, so wondrous that to us the day on
which it took
place must ever be the day of all days, the great day of our life, for
on that
day Love was born to us. Dear Love, with thy wide-open eyes of beauty!
Dear,
dear Love, with thy tender smile and gentle voice! How sweetly thou
didst come,
thou Christ-Child, and how at thy coming Kind Thought, and Purity, and
Mercy
drew near once more, that they might gaze upon thy sweet face ; and lo!
at thy
presence Hate died, Envy, Deceit, and Malice fled away, and Pain and
Woe were
no more.
And Love
it was that taught us how we had chosen those children of ours of our
own free
will, how they were but the offspring of our own hearts, the outcome of
our own
thoughts; that we alone are responsible for the birth of those Mental
Children—that host that peoples the
world in which we live and move day
by day. By our command,
and ours alone, they come forth from us—thoughts of Kindness and
Tenderness, of
Pity and Mercy, to call into our lives Goodness, Peace and Joy—to fill
our
homes with Gladness and Friendship and Love. But if we choose to have
it
so—thoughts of Envy, Unkindness, Suspicion, Hatred, Pride, Malice,
Uncharitable
ness—calling to us, after their own kind, Despair, Sickness,
Loneliness,
Strife, Care, Poverty, Hardship, and Sorrow.
"As a
man thinketh in his heart, so is he." "Finally, whatsoever things are
true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just,
whatsoever
things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things
are of good
report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think
on these
things."
LILY L.
ALLEN.
Chapter
1 - FEAR
we are
constantly surrounded by our own Mental Children, just as parents are
surrounded by their sons and daughters. We live in constant association
with
them, and according to their character and the power and strength we
have endowed
them with, do they add to or detract from our happiness and peace.
Fear is
one of the most undesirable of all Mental Children.
Once give
birth to Fear, and it will grow and grow till it becomes a demon in
your life,
robbing you of all joy and peace. It is like the terrible octopus with
its many
deadly suckers stretching out in all directions, and always ready to
spurt out
its black colouring matter over every effort you make, shrouding in
darkness
every step of your way.
There is
the fear of disease, which haunts so many people.
I have met
persons who were always afraid of some disease or other. One lady I
knew lived
in continual dread of cancer, because some ancestor had died of it. So
constantly did she dwell upon this dire disease that her life became a
burden,
her days long agonies of apprehension, and her nights long nightmares
of fear.
I have not seen her for many years, but I candidly admit that I should
not be
surprised to hear that "the thing that she feared had come upon her,"
for she was constantly suggesting cancer to her body by the very force
of her
fear. We have not yet thoroughly grasped the great power of such a
suggestion
over the body, for let us not forget that mind governs matter.
We all
know the power of the fear of public opinion over some minds. "What will the people
say?" "What
will so-and-so think?" Of all the slavish fears, perhaps this is one of
the most degrading. Fear of public opinion has robbed thousands of
men and
women of their moral stamina and manly and womanly fibre. No man or
woman that
lives in constant fear of acting because the people may think this,
or
the people may think that, or because of what some particular
person may
think, ever became a strong, brave, self-reliant character. If you have
given
birth to this soul-destroying Mental Child, slay it now, do
not give it
life or room one moment longer. Rise up in all your latent God-given
strength
and power, and act, think, speak, regardless of the opinions of the
world, or
what the people may think, so long as your own heart condemns you not.
A good
mental tonic for one suffering from this form of fear would be to
repeat that
saying of Emerson's over and over again:—
"What
I must do is all that concerns me, not what the people think."
Fear of
the future is another way in which this terrible mental child takes
hold of the
mind that gives life to it.
How many
people live in constant fear of troubles which never come to them, of
sorrows
which never cross their pathway, of misfortunes which never have
any existence.
I once
knew a woman who lived in constant fear of poverty. Over and over again
I have
heard her say, "I am afraid that I shall come to the workhouse at
last." Yet she had all that was needful for a simple happy life, and
good
kind children who loved her very tenderly; and what made it more
singular, this
woman was a devout Christian, living a good, pure, charitable life, and
was
loved by everybody that knew her. She was in the habit of reading her
Bible
every day, and must have read over and over again the words
of the Christ, "All
these things
shall be added unto you," and yet she lived under the shadow of this
awful
fear.
If anyone
who reads this book is suffering in a similar way, let me implore you
to drop
this foolish fear at once. Ask yourself a few searching questions,
thus:— "Am
I living an honest, upright, true life? Am I doing unto others, in
every
detail, as I would they should do unto me? Am I doing my duty in every
sense of
the word? Am I using the money I have today in a proper manner, neither
wastefully, nor extravagantly?" If you can answer all those questions as
they ought to be answered, then I assure you—and my authority is
none other
than the Holy Scriptures—that you need have no fear of the future.
"Say
ye to the righteous that it shall be well with him."
There are
people who have a great fear of work. I have met many people, perhaps women
more
especially than men, who live in constant fear of overworking
themselves. What
a foolish fear! I will go further and say, what a destroying fear!
I will go
further still and say, what a degrading fear! Work never killed
anybody, but
worry and fear have killed thousands. If people worked more, and
feared
less, there would be more health and less sickness in the world.
How many
of us go to bed really tired of a night? I doubt if many do. It is only
the
tired who know how sweet it is to rest. It is only the weary who know
the
delightful sense of refreshing sleep. The workers are the happiest, the
health-iest,
and the longest lived. Away with this fear of real good hard work! Find
something
to do, and do it with "both hands earnestly" and,
"Give
every flying moment.
Something
to keep in store."
And oh! the
many who live in constant fear of death. Why should we fear death? It is
as natural
to die as to be born. No doubt the teaching of the past has had much to
do with
the creation of this fear—that is, the teaching of western religions,
for the
oriental never fears death.
The
horrible teaching of hell and everlasting punishment has clothed death
with
many horrors, but let us rejoice that such an unreasonable doctrine,
such a
God-dishonouring conception has passed almost entirely away. Very, very
few are
they who believe it today.
We have
been taught also that death was the end of life, as we know life, and
so men
called it "the dark angel," "the last dread monster,"
"the cold waters of Jordan," etc., etc., and, try to refute it as we
may, the fact remains that at the root of this fear of death is the
belief that
this one little life was all there was of life, and. that with
the death
of this body came the end of all life, all hope, all love, all gladness, all progress.
It is true
men postulated a heaven for the good, as well as a hell for the bad,
but it was
all so unreal to our minds—those golden streets, the harps, the palms,
the
great white throne, the endless hallelujahs, that we could not realize
it as
life. I once heard a good man say in the pulpit, "If all that is
heaven,
then I don't want to go there."
How much
more reasonable, how much more in keeping with our sense of justice, is
the
thought of reincarnation; that this life is but one of many lives; that
after a
period of rest we shall return again to the world, to take our place
once more
in the march of progress, beginning again where we left off in our
former life;
back again to gather in the harvest of seeds sown in this life, the
bitter from
the bitter, and the sweet from the sweet!
Oh,
glorious thought for those who have had but small opportunity in this
life! Oh,
blessed thought for those whose weak hands have
reluctantly laid aside the half-finished task!
Oh, thrice blessed thought for some of us who yearn for greater and
deeper
knowledge, and to witness the grand march of science and progress in
the future!
Surely Tennyson must have been thinking of this when he wrote:—
"Well,
were it not a pleasant thing
To
fall asleep with all one's friends.
To
pass with all our social ties
To
silence from the paths of men;
And
every hundred years to rise
And
learn the world, and sleep again."
Think not,
my dear reader, that this is a new thought. It is found in all the
religions of
the world, and in all its Scriptures. If we will take the trouble
to look
carefully at the writings of our own philosophers and poets, we shall
find that
they too thought of rebirth, and gave expression to the thought.
Wordsworth
says:—
"Our
birth is but a sleep and a forgetting;
The
soul that rises with us, our life's star.
Hath
had elsewhere its setting
And
cometh from afar."
Goethe
said:—
"The
soul of man is like the water—
From
heaven it cometh, to heaven it mounteth,
And
thence at once it must back to earth,
For
ever changing."
Whittier,
in that beautiful poem "A Mystery," says:—
"A
presence strange at once and known
Walked
with me as my guide;
The
skirts of some forgotten life
Trailed
noiseless at my side."
Longfellow
speaks of the—
"Mysterious
change
From
birth to death, from death to birth.
From
earth to heaven, from heaven to earth."
Dryden
said:—
"Souls
cannot die. They leave a former home,
And
in new bodies dwell and from them roam."
And Robert
Browning:—
"Delayed
it may be for more lives yet,
Through
worlds I must traverse, not a few—
Much
is to learn and much forget
Ere
the time be come for taking you."
Coleridge,
in "On a Homeward Journey ":—
"Oft
in my brain does that strange fancy roll
Which
makes the present (while the flesh does last)
Seem
a mere semblance of some unknown past,
Mixed
with such feelings as perplex the soul
Self-questioned
in her sleep: and some have said
We
lived ere yet this robe of flesh we wore."
Many more
there are did space but permit us to repeat them.
Oh, how
differently would those who fear death think of it did they but see it as
the passage
from one life to another, the doorway to another sphere of
usefulness, and
work, and duty, and—if we have so lived as to deserve it—a
higher sphere,
a greater work, and a nobler duty!
To the
good, pure, simple, upright soul there is absolutely nothing to
fear.
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